Why
be afraid when there is no other fear.
And all other fears are but noises in the mind.
Guru Nanak (GGS, p. 151)
Rare
is the human being who during the course of his life has not had
to travel through life's darkness. Darkness where all seems to be
lost. Where there seems to be no hope or way out. And perhaps men
who have never gone through such a period through their entire lives
have not received the final finish. They remain soft and insecure.
Just as an athlete cannot reach his potential without putting his
body through grueling workouts, a man cannot reach his true stature
without battling the demons that life's tragedies bring forth.
It is through the dark times that a man's faith is tested. Will
he be able to retain his balance or will he falter? In this vulnerable
state man becomes anxious to grasp at meaningless rituals. He is
willing to believe in cults that ask him to hand over his life to
them They will run his life and during this dark time it seems like
the best choice to some. Charlatans and quacks emerge from every
corner to strip him of his dignity and to enrich themselves through
his tragic state. But it is also in this dark state that a man can
test his beliefs and theories. He can test his spiritual and physical
muscles.
My
strength has dissipated, shackles enclose me, there seems no escape.
Says Nanak; Your are my shelter; empower me as you have your saints.
My strength has returned: my shackles are shattered; all doors are
open.
Says Nanak: all is in Your hands; I lean on You.
Guru Teg Bahadur (GGS p. 1429)
Triggers
of Darkness
Triggers of Darkness Darkness can be triggered into a person's life
through a number of events.
A highly developed inner warrior may force one to take
a stand against incredible odds. This may result in great personal
harm. The body may be maimed, loved ones may be lost. Sikh history
is replete with such stands against seemingly impossible odds. Guru
Gobind Singh promised the Khalsa: "I will make the sparrow fight
the hawk!"
Situations beyond one's control may cause grave illnesses
and rob one of vitality. "Why me?" is the natural response.
Mighty men of this world may decide to make life a
living hell. Giant faceless corporations may make arbitrary rules
and cause layoffs or unbearable work conditions.
Drugs or alcohol may take one into life's abyss. It
may seem impossible to break the addiction.
People who were loved and trusted may decide for apparently
no reason to betray one. It may send one into despair.
Attitude
is Everything
The spiritual and mental attitude with which one faces life's dark
periods is the key to how one emerges on the other side. The self-pitying
"why me?" attitude opens the key to the door which leads down the
path where charlatans and quacks can rob onešs dignity. The "why
not me?" attitude allows one to emerge strengthened. The tragedy
has been viewed as a challenge and the individual and society is
better off once the clouds pass.

When
pleasure and pain look alike, How can sorrow touch one.
The saint resides in eternal bliss. For he/she understands the Creator's
work.
Guru Arjun Dev (GGS p. 186)
Since
tragedies and life's uncertainties are bound to strike sooner or
later, how does the Sikh prepare for them? Here is what the Guru
advises us.
As you lose your self-centered style and develop a
more universal style, personal ups and downs seem less thrilling
and frightening. The ability to take joy in another's joy and feel
another's sorrow provides the balance needed to face life's individual
darkness.
The faith that nature's laws are constant...in the
physical and spiritual world...is essential in preventing missteps
in darkness. Charlatans will love to fix the stars or put in a personal
good word to God for you...for a small price. Sometimes the price
is money, sometimes it may involve handing over the control of your
mind to them. It is critical for the Sikh not to fall into the trap
of tricksters and cult leaders in times of darkness.
Look at life as the great play run by Waheguru in which
joyful parts and tragic parts are all to be played as a challenge.
One does not puff up when good fortune smiles and get deflated at
the slightest prick.
Turn difficult challenges into resources for humanity.
Throughout history men and women have overcome great challenges
and used them to leave gifts for humanity. New medical treatments
have been endured by people with grave illnesses to provide cures
to others. Brave men have suffered the torture of being skinned
alive to ensure that future generations can practice their religions
in dignity.

There
are some who worship stones held on their heads;
some who carry stone idols around their necks.
Some describe God as residing in the south; some prostate to the
west.
Gripped in false ceremonies is this world; true wonders of the Creator
lost.
Guru Gobind Singh (DG p. 14)
Enterprise
and Unbounded Optimism
A belief system that incorporates universal brotherhood
and sisterhood of humanity, one that rejects degrading rituals,
caste systems and racial superiority, and one that strives to achieve
bliss through action, is not only good for the spirit...it also
generates thriving communities. The Sikh is spread across all corners
of the world. He has not gone to these corners as a conqueror or
to convert the native...he has gone with a sense of adventure and
enterprise and with a belief that this great world is for all to
share.
Everywhere the Sikh has gone, he has thrived. There have been
occasional acts of discrimination, but the Sikh does not dwell on
them. His motto is always the same: Thriving, not surviving! Thanks
to Yogi Harbhajan Singh, many Westerners have been exposed to the
beauty of the Sikh style. The Westerners who have accepted this
faith bring to it their unique energy and spirit. Often, Sikhs who
have been born into Sikhism are impressed by the beauty and grace
of these "new" Sikhs. The Sikh has not thrived because he is intrinsically
more brilliant than others. Nor because he has unusual physical
attributes. The reason is perhaps this: he is unfettered by superstitions
and his actions are unencumbered by "I-know-God-better"-priests
and astrologers. He has no problems breaking bread with the so-called
low-castes or the heathens or kafirs. He does not wait for auspicious
alignments of stars to make life decisions. And most importantly,
the Sikh does not accept poverty and suffering as a necessity for
a high spiritual life. On the contrary, he associates physical deprivation
with silliness.
The Sikh style of enterprise has often come into conflict with
the political climate of the times. The most recent example of this
has resulted in the massacre of thousands of Sikhs in 1984. The
now-repudiated Soviet inspired fiscal policies of the Indian government
created financial deprivation which was particularly unacceptable
for Sikhs. This, and not any inherent Hindu-Sikh conflict, caused
the disastrous event which led to the 1984 tragedy. The adage kirit
karo, vand chakho, Nam japo...put forth the enterprise, share the
labor's fruit and keep your life in accordance with Nam...guides
the Sikh and ensures physically, mentally and spiritually healthy
individuals and societies.
Epilogue
A short story from the life of Guru Nanak captures his
view of the Creator. During one of his travels, Guru Nanak came
upon some learned priests offering gifts to the glory of the Creator.
Each priest had offered his own precious gift. Guru Nanak, however,
stood by calmly. He was asked, "Do you not have something to offer
to your Creator? A coconut, some milk, perhaps some precious stone?
What kind of worship do you believe in?"
In his response Guru Nanak uttered one of the most beautiful compositions,
part of which is displayed below. As humanity grapples with our
serious environmental problems where the beautiful earth is threatened
through greed or ignorance, it is affirming to meditate on this
hymn composed five hundred years ago.

With
sky the salver, the sun and the moon the lamps, galaxies of stars
studded as jewels;
With chandan scented winds from the Malai mountains fanning,
myriad flowers illuminating the spectacle;
Thus is your worship performed, O Destroyer of fear, this is your
worship.
The melody rings and music of the Word is made as if on a tender
flute. (Pause).
Thousands are Thine eyes, yet hast thou eyes?
Thousands thy form, yet hast Thou a form?
Thousands are Thy lotus-feet, yet hast Thou feet?
Thousands Thine noses, yet hast Thou a nose?
Thou art the Spirit that flows through all.
Your light illumines all.
Through the True Guru's wisdom Your light appears...
What pleases Thee becomes Thy worship.
(Like the honey bee) all day I crave the honey of Thine lotus-feet.
Bestow upon Nanak the nectar of Thy grace, so he can merge in Thy
Name.
Guru Nanak (GGS p. 663)
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